1. Readily decrease the intensity of your emotions
e.g. terrified becomes worried
2. Healthy expression of emotion becomes the norm
e.g. no more silent treatment
3. Regularly match your emotion to the situation
e.g. no rage if fear is more appropriate
4. Act from balance rather than react from strong emotions.
The EAT Program™ mapped out in Emotion Commotion combines research on emotions and your natural use of metaphor with a simple process to Locate, Describe & Transform™ (LDT™) your negative emotions.