I Know Me

7 rhyming stories for all ages

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If life is a journey, 'I Know Me' gives you the steps to make the best of it.

Not all stories begin with “Once upon a time …” Sometimes, the story just sneaks up on you. You go to bed happy, but want to hide under the covers in the morning. You’re holding it all together, but someone says or does something that makes you lose your head. Or there’s a slow burn – that creeping, crawling feeling of fear, sadness, or hurt building in your body.

The next thing you know, instead of healthy action and “using your words” (like you teach the kids), you REACT! Let’s give you a better option.

Let your imagination take you to a quiet place for a moment. Take a deep breath in, and as you slowly breathe out, imagine a bright light growing steadily out from your heart to surround you. It should be well past your finger tips, above your head, and deep below your feet. You want a bright light bubble of personal space.

Take in another slow, deep breath. This time, when you exhale, imagine healthy, flexible roots moving down your legs, deep and wide into the ground. You want roots out your boots.

In your third deep, slow breath, imagine a bright ray of sun growing from your chest right up and into the centre of the sun. You want to be one with the sun.

Feeling calm? Protected, grounded, and connected, ask yourself your next best move, and step out into your world. 

The Skills

Recognize Stress Imagery
"put on armour" 100%
Understand Impact
"invisible fields that we call energy" 100%
Safe Space
"bright light bubble" 100%
Grounding
"roots out your boots" 100%
Connection
"one with the sun" 100%
Self Reflection
"like changing an old sweater" 100%
Trust Intuition
"too much thinking makes intuition slow" 100%

Praise

'I Know Me' introduces a conflict-free environment... offering students, and supporting teachers and parents, with a new language and skill set ... students are encouraged to deal with healing rather than just dealing with conflict resolution.
Ontario Ministry of Education
Registry of Bullying Prevention Programs
As a retired school teacher, I would like to commend Karen for providing such a wonderful teaching resource. Not only is 'I Know Me' ideal for children, it is also a wonderful resource for adults.
Bev Henri
retired teacher
'I Know Me' is a great book for pre-teens and teens on bullying and coping with their emotional responses. It is an excellent book for adults to understand their negative feelings and how to diffuse them.
Nancy Dahmer
grandparent

Story 1

Scared Like Me

Teo, Katie, Fang Hua and Jared,
all felt alone, uncertain and scared.

Their mums couldn’t help them, and nor could their dads,
whose own fears were hiding behind lots of pads.

Story 2

Here, There and Everywhere

Near someone kind, you may feel quite jolly;
mean actions, though, can leave knots in your belly.

For the energy of others will blend with your own,
just as yours will impact their energy home.

Story 3

Safe Inside

Buzzing, noisy, hyper sound?
Bright light bubble, slows it down.

Anger, rage, bully, shout?
Bright light bubble, keeps it out.

Story 4

Hold On Tight

Sometimes, I wake up in the morning:
I’ve been snoring, people glowering.

I feel frazzled, all bedazzled,
kinda hyper, can’t decipher

what to do or how to do it:
Like I’m flying, no denying.

Story 5

Stand Tall

I’ll show you how to be able to touch the sun:
You’re capable! Its energy will fill you up,
just like you were a golden cup.

A cup, in fact, incredible, with energy renewable:
Its source, the sun, is non-stop power,
connecting you through every hour.

Story 6

I Know Me

Can you picture if your mother, or your father,
or your friend, had a whole pile of emotions
that they didn’t comprehend?

And instead of doing something to connect
and make a change, they just yelled, or screamed,
or lied, or hid, or acted kind of strange?

Story 7

Seeing Me, Seeing You

Listen, you say? With eyes that don’t see?
I’m confused more and more: Just how can that be?

Yes, I see you’re confused by the eyes in my head,
so let’s talk intuition – It’s faster, instead!